Author Jon Gordon has written many good books, you can find them here. Recently, he posted a quote about complaining on his twitter account., and I loved it. I tweaked it just a little, but the majority of it is his.
"Complaining is like vomiting in public. Afterwards you feel better, but everyone else around you feels sick."
I will be the first to admit that I can be one of the worst complainers there is. It often stems from frustration that I cannot control everything and it makes me feel better. Yet, maybe I am making everyone else around me sick.
This book gives some good ideas on what to do before you complain. Give it a read.
