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Monday, August 31, 2026

Bonhoeffer's Theory of Stupidity

As I look around and see what's going on in the world, but especially, my country, I can't help but to think of Diedrich Bonhoeffer and some of his books I've read.

His Theory on Stupidity has really stuck with me.

I believe that theory and Gad Sad's book on Suicidal Empathy may be the most important writings that "we" can have if we want to maintain our "way of life". 

I say this in being all for inclusivity and diversity, but when that diverse group is squarely different in its ideals than what "our" ideals are, it's a problem.

And yet, I see many of my friends that are on The Left, who are empathizing with groups of people who are directly against them.

The "useful idiots" is a real thing, alluded to by George Orwell in his book 1984, but it's not who "they" think it is. 

It isn't the people they think because they are usefully idiotic empathizing suicidally for groups that want them...dead.

And as a Christian who believes in loving your neighbor, at what point did Bonhoeffer, as a pastor, go from loving his Nazi neighbors, to trying to assassinated Adolph Hitler?

How could he justify that?

Below is the ideas of the Theory of Stupidity taken straight off the Internet.

Why Stupidity is Worse Than Evil
  • Evil can be fought: Society can recognize evil, expose it, and stop it with force.
  • Stupidity is defenseless: Logic and facts do not work against a stupid person. Facts that do not fit their view are ignored or dismissed.
  • Stupidity becomes violent: When cornered by facts, the stupid person feels irritated and becomes dangerous, often going on the attack. 
It is a Moral Defect, Not Low Intelligence
  • Smart people can be stupid: Bonhoeffer noted that people with high intelligence can still fall into stupidity.
  • It is a choice to surrender freedom: Stupidity happens when a person gives up their inner independence and critical thinking.
  • People speak in slogans: When you talk to a stupid person, you do not feel like you are talking to a real individual. You feel like you are listening to slogans, catchwords, and scripts that have taken over their mind. 
A Social Problem
  • Groups create stupidity: People alone in solitude are rarely stupid. Stupidity happens in groups.
  • Power needs stupidity: Bonhoeffer stated that the rise of overwhelming political or religious power requires the stupidity of the crowd. As he wrote: "The power of the one needs the stupidity of the other."
  • Responsibility fades: When people join a crowd or obey power, they stop feeling responsible for their own actions.
How to Overcome Stupidity
  • Arguments do not work: Trying to use reasons to change a stupid person’s mind is useless and dangerous.
  • Only liberation helps: Bonhoeffer believed that instruction cannot cure stupidity. It requires an act of real liberation.
  • External freedom must come first: Internal liberation usually only happens after the external system of power or peer pressure is broken.

Friday, August 28, 2026

Munich Germany



The above picture is where the 1972 Olympics Mens Basketball tournament took place. 

It is where the USA lost its first basketball game in the history of the Olympics, many think they got cheated.

Below is the area where the athletes stayed.

It was the sight of the PLO terrorists taking Israeli athletes hostage.
 

Wednesday, August 26, 2026

Washington D.C.



I go to Washington D.C. every spring with our school's senior class. 

It really isn't bad, and we stay just off the Mall, and do so many things.

However, when I get free time, I try to do something new.

This past spring, I went to where James Garfield was shot (top pic), and where The Beatles had their first concert in the US. 

Saturday, August 8, 2026

The Recent Order of Events in the last Ten Years

That's not happening.

Who cares if it's happening.

I can't believe you're not for that happening.

You are a bad person.