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Tuesday, February 28, 2017

Don't Believe the Hype



Everyone seems to want change, but few people actually want to change.

There are many reasons for this, but here are three, I believe.

1. It takes us out of comfort zone. We talk about change, change, change, but when faced with it, we like to revert back to what we are comfortable with. It's human nature. You have to fight that urge to return to the comfort zone.

2. People talk about change, but really don't want it. They want to seem progressive and forward thinking, but they just act that way because it looks "cool" or cutting edge. In reality, they don't want to change anymore than people who want no change at all.

3. Finally, they continue talking about change, but have been burned so many times from the lack of change, they believe that going into anything new, they will get the same result as usual...no change.

It's unfortunate, but we all are guilty of our comfort zone in one form or the other.

We have to fight it while still believing in something.