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Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Monday, April 28, 2014

It Takes Time


We spent the better part of two days in Paoli watching our daughter play in a travel softball tournament this weekend.  This group of girls played together last year in all stars and were pretty good.  The previous year they had lost in all stars in the machine pitch division and with a year of experience, they were better.

Now they are playing at the kid pitch level and are the youngest again.  They struggled, but showed some potential this weekend, but it will take time.  Every couple of years as kids develop, they go from being the youngest which causes them to struggle, to the oldest which helps with their success.

The problem is that we often compare that first year up with the previous year of success and that is not fair to the girls.  It will take time.  They will improve this year, and next year they will be able to build on whatever success they have.  In the meantime, we should sit back and enjoy this time with them because there will be a day when we will miss it after they are grown and gone.

Thursday, April 24, 2014

ScoreBig.com

Recently, I received an email from a representative of ScoreBig.com.  The email informed me that as a blogger they would like to offer me a promo discount if I would write about their website/company.  Seeing the opportunity for something free, I tentatively leaped at the opportunity.  I guess the cynical part of me thought there had to be a catch, nothing is for free, right? Obviously, they would want me to write about their company and post it here, so I thought, I can fake it for the money, right?

Then I got on their website.  It is pretty cool and unlike any ticket website that I have been on before.   You can buy tickets on the site, and you can bid for a lower price.  I am mostly interested in baseball and basketball games and they have plenty of options close to where I live, but they offer other sports, music, and other attractions.  I went into this thinking that it would be a one time usage, use my promo code, and that is it, but I do not think so now.

I am not trying to sell anything and I have not used the site yet so I am interested in how it will play out.  But if it works the way I think it will, it is a site I will use often.  Did I mention you can bid on tickets?  A downfall may be that you may not know exactly where your tickets are before the event, but you will know a general area.  Again, it is the Priceline of tickets in bidding on your tickets.  I am looking forward to trying it out!

Quick Facts:

● You are guaranteed to save on each and every ticket on ScoreBig.com
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How it works:

● Choose your event
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ScoreBig.com enables consumers to get great tickets for live sports, concert and theater events – at guaranteed savings of up to 60 percent. ScoreBig.com customers pick their own price on seats from the floor to the rafters, always pay less than box office price, and never pay any fees. For its partners, ScoreBig.com is the first and only opaque sales channel to move unsold ticket inventory in a way that protects the ticket owner’s brand and fullprice sales. Headquartered in Los Angeles, Calif., ScoreBig.com was founded in 2009 and is backed by Bain Capital Ventures and U.S. Venture Partners. ScoreBig.com was recently recognized by Forbes as one of America’s Most Promising Companies and by Billboard as one of the 10 Best Startups of 2012.


 
 


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Wednesday, April 23, 2014

What Will They Do?


Coaching has helped me as a parent.  There are many things that I have learned on what to do and what not to do.  When you coach and you are not a parent, you think you have all the answers, but I did not.  For me, I had to have children to make me a better coach.  Some might argue that it made ma worse coach, but that is how I feel, personally. But, being a coach has allowed me to pay attention to how I act as a parent of an athlete and has helped me there also. Not only do I examine my own actions, I am open to feedback of other people, I think, more than others because I realize we all lose our minds with our own children.

Life is hard.  Sports are easy.  However, sports do prepare you for life, but they are not life.  Dealing with adversity whether with a coach, losing, injury, or teammates are all part of growing up.  Will I be able to step in everytime my kids need me?  Yep, until they are adults or I die.  So I hope I have preprared them for the brutality of life without me.  Why? Because I will not always be there to pick them up, dust them off, and send them back into the fight.  They must learn to do it themselves.